Respecting the Restlessness Within

Are you feeling a sense of restlessness, a nagging feeling that something needs to change? It comes from within. The call is coming from inside the house! (if you get that reference, this article is for you!)

In all seriousness though, it’s a message from your body saying now is the time to fulfill your dreams or let them go. It’s time to invest in yourself,  especially if you’re a midlife woman who’s been putting off your personal growth for far too long.

Think of it as a house in need of renovation.

You keep postponing the major overhaul, waiting for the perfect moment to begin. But then, out of nowhere, that moment arrives—a realtor’s insistence on updating your home before listing it on the market.

Suddenly, you’re tearing out the dated breakfast bar, selecting the perfect backsplash, and installing that dreamy porcelain farmhouse sink.

And dammit if it isn’t more amazing than the vision in your head!

You try to enjoy it in between showings your realtor scheduled and your inner critic spends the day shout-whispering “remind me why, exactly, did I want to sell this beautiful perfect house?”

Embracing Urgency and Commitment

But here’s the thing: You are not a kitchen remodel.

You are a complex, multifaceted being deserving of attention and care, not just when circumstances demand it, but always. Don’t wait for external pressures to force you into action. Embrace the urgency within and make a commitment to yourself, starting today.

It’s time to stop setting yourself aside and start embracing the fullness of who you are. Whether it’s pursuing a passion, investing in your mental and physical health, or simply taking time to reconnect with yourself, every step you take towards self-discovery is a step towards a more fulfilling life.

Inserting an important footnote here:  recognize that investing in yourself is not a selfish act —it’s an essential component of living a fulfilling life. When you prioritize your own growth and happiness, you become better equipped to show up fully for your loved ones and to to make the impact on the world you’re meant to make.

Nurturing Your Authentic Self

It can be helpful to seek support and guidance on your journey of self-discovery. Whether it’s joining a supportive community or engaging with coaching, surrounding yourself with individuals who actively listen, ask thought-provoking questions, and reflect back your insights can be incredibly beneficial. These resources can provide invaluable encouragement and accountability.

So, respect the call from within, and know that it stems from a deep desire for growth, fulfillment, and authenticity.  Don’t let fear or uncertainty hold you back from embracing the fullness of who you are and living the life you deserve. 

Remember, you deserve attention, now.